The King Of Camaros

Filed under: Online Travel Resources — admin at 9:10 pm on Wednesday, August 27, 2008

The camaro has had a long proud history with Chevrolet, it been through four generations of improvements, and now it’s going on its fifth generation, none of them have quite had the flair of the first generation.

But the new fifth generation camaro is poised to at least match the popularity of the first generation camaro, if not do better, the first generation camaro is still far and away my favorite, but the fifth generation is going to take a close second place now, a spot taken for many years by the second generation model, this new camaro has pushed the second generation model back to third position for me.

I never thought in my wildest dreams that a new camaro would come out and boot the second generation camaro out of it’s rightful spot in second place for me, after the 1973 model, I really didn’t like the camaro any more, I figured that Chevrolet could have put a bit more thought in to the car, but they have made up for that in a big way with the new camaro concept car, all they need to do is produce it now “KUDOS” to them.

Now I will talk a little about my favorite camaro, the first generation, this was a very special car, it had a medium low stance, with highly pronounced side body lines that just seemed to melt away at the end of the car, in the 1969 model the front fenders rolled around at the bottom, where they joined up to the front valance, with two signal lights in the middle of it, and the small front bumper just above the front valance.

The 1969 model was a wide and medium heavy car at 3450 pounds with out the driver, and with a big block you could add another 200 pounds to that number, which is why models like the “COPO 9560″ exist with the aluminum big block, that weighed about the same as a small block, the 9560 was factory rated at 450 HP but dynode at closer to 625 hp, this was not a car for the weak of heart, you’d better be ready for this ride.

The camaro was a very heavily optioned car, with a wide variety of add on parts that you could get right from the factory, on the Z/28 model you could get four wheel disc brakes, a cross ram intake manifold with two 500 cfm double pumper holley carburetors on it, you could add the off road cam for more power, and you had rear end gear choices from a 2.35 all the way to a 4.56, with a Muncie M22 rock crusher transmission with four speeds, and this just gets the list started.

There’s a lot of reasons why the first generation camaro is my favorite, but not the least which is that I owned a 1969 Z/28, before my mom got pissed off and sold it while I was on a vacation away from home, the first generation camaro just had a certain feel about it, it just emulated power, it was a real muscle car, a man’s machine, a car to be reckoned with.

David Atkin - EzineArticles Expert Author

I’ve been in the automotive business for about 20 or 25 years, I have worked in all facets of the industry, from parts to restoration, all different makes and models, I just want to keep people interested in the old cars because it’s where my heart is.

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Auto Restoration Alliance

What Every Real Estate Investor Should Know About Investment Property Loans

Filed under: Online Travel Resources — admin at 7:08 pm on Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Savvy real estate investors know that there is an art to getting an investment property loan. Educating yourself on the process will eliminate much of the headache and hassles that often plague real estate investors.

If you go into
it expecting the same ease as financing a primary residence, you may find yourself feeling overwhelmed or frustrated. Here are a few things you should know:

1. Be prepared. Standard, fully documented investment property loans require a lot of paperwork. You may be required to provide the following documentation:

Tax returns with all schedules
Schedule of real estate owned
Mortgage statements for each property
Tax and insurance documentation for each property
Proof of current or proposed rental income

2. There are a variety of loan programs available for investors. Research your options to find something that suits your cash flow needs and your credit profile. There are programs for both perfect and bruised credit.

3. Investment property loans often have more stringent underwriting criteria. A high FICO score may be required to get the terms you desire. The maximum loan allowed may also be less than that of a primary residence. There could be a limit on the number of real estate loans the borrower is allowed to have. Find out the lender’s criteria in advance.

4. Appraisal fees are usually higher. The lender may require a market rent analysis to determine if your proposed rental income projections are realistic.

5. The lender may have other requirements or restrictions regarding the subject property such as:

It must meet or exceed the minimum allowed square footage
Manufactured homes may or may not be allowed
Less than double-wide mobile homes may or may not be allowed
An appraisal subject to repairs may not be allowed

Check with your loan officer up front if you have any of these issues

6. Consider reduced documentation loans to make the process easier. A slightly higher interest rate or a lower loan amount might not be a bad trade off if it gets the job done.

Stephanie Graham is a mortgage professional with more than two decades of experience in both retail and wholesale lending. Stephanie has excelled in a number of positions including CRA officer, corporate trainer, consultant, and as an executive of Complete Mortgage Processing. More tips and techniques for mortgage processing and origination can be found at http://www.completemortgageprocessing.com

Children Surviving Divorce-With Faith, Commitment and Support

Filed under: Online Travel Resources — admin at 6:14 pm on Monday, August 25, 2008

It is a late Sunday evening, two weeks before Xmas. It hasn’t really
been a bad day. Yet it hasn’t been a particularly happy day either. Xmas
can be a difficult time of the year because it is supposed to be a time
of happiness and for giving but it can be a time to remember personal loss.

It is a time when memories of family events come to mind… of children
going to bed on Xmas Eve, being so excited with the sure knowledge that
when they wake next morning Santa Claus will have visited and left wonderfully
wrapped gifts. The happiness of being woken early to watch the frenzied
opening of gifts… Ah, the wonderful memories!

Yet, Xmas hasn’t been so happy for the last two years. The saddest thing
of all was that my 18-year-old son refused to accept a single gift from
his mother, nor has he given any thought towards giving a gift. There hasn’t
even been a birthday card sent. In fact, he hasn’t spoken to her for over
two years. All he would say when questioned was that he wished “that she
was dead”. After two and a half years since his mother left home I expected
yet another Xmas of underlying heartache and sadness.

But, this Xmas I am confident there will be a change. My son will be
exchanging gifts with his mother.

As a young man he has been incredibly disturbed by the loss of his mother
at a vital stage in his life, at the transition between the end of his
childhood and adulthood. In general, little has changed in his attitude
towards her from what he is prepared to say, but there is now a glimmer
of hope… of reconciliation.

His Grandmother seems to be partly responsible for this coming together.
Sadly, only a few years away from her 100th birthday, she has found it
impossible to continue looking after her house and keep herself properly
fed. This has brought about a common interest. It has been his choice.

And all I had to say to him was ” After all the doubt and pain that
you have been through… you know now that you are more than strong enough
to cope with any difficulty”

It has taken a long time for the situation to change from the icy frozen
waste of a mother estranged from her now adult son… but there is a sense
of thawing and a crack is visible that, hopefully, will grow. Friendship
may develop between them and trust return between mother and son, given
patience and time… A twinkling star in the blackness of night?

Fanciful, perhaps!

I know I couldn’t wish for a better Xmas gift… “I have faith in my
son”

By showing continued faith in your children and giving them the total
support they need as they make their make their own family separation decisions,
they will be rewarded by your continued commitment. And, you never know…
with time your whole family will grow with strength and gain peace of mind…
A new balance will return.

Chris Annable is the author of a new book titled: Doc Ingman’s
“Divorce And Separation Survival For Men”, which tells of one man’s remarkable
story of how he took control of his life and helped his son survive the
struggle of separation from his mother during divorce. Contact: http://www.divorce-and-separation.com

Super Stars Don’t Make the Team

Filed under: Online Travel Resources — admin at 6:47 pm on Saturday, August 23, 2008

I was watching an interview with Charles Barkley. His basketball career was being discussed. He was asked to rate the great players during his 1985-1990 years.

Charles declared Michael Jordan #1 and Barkley #2. The commentator, to clarify the statement, asked Charles if he thought himself better than Magic Johnson. Charles replied, “Yes.” The commentator then asked Charles if he thought of himself as better than Larry Bird. Charles replied again, “Yes.”

Barkley went on to explain why. He felt that both Magic Johnson and Larry Bird belonged to better teams, so they seemed better because they were playing with other great players. I would disagree. The title “great player” or “super star” doesn’t mean anything if their team is not involved.

I left the interview and watched a segment of Mr. 3000, a feature film starring Bernie Mac. In the movie, Bernie plays a one time great player, who has returned to Major League Baseball after a discrepancy in his hit totals was found. He joins his old team at the end of a season to get a few more hits. He’s having a hard time fitting in and the team is almost out of contention for the play-offs.

After a losing game, T-Rex, the current super star of the team is being interviewed in the locker room. T-Rex blames the loss on his teammates. He believes that he did his job. He’s about to make even nastier comments when Bernie steps up and draws the reporters over to himself and away from the new super star. He meets T-Rex later in the parking lot and explains that Bernie wasn’t looking for glory, but rather protecting the super star from damaging relations within the team.

So often in sports we see super stars hired for their names. They come in and get their stats and a bigger name for themselves, but do nothing for the team. They think they are the team, they ignore the team, or they look down on the individual members of the team. It’s the same in business. Headhunters supply hotshot executives and turn-around experts who come in and make bold moves, increase stock prices or public confidence and move on.

Super stars in sports and business are great, if they can communicate with team members. Teambuilding begins with knowing our roles, forming mentoring relationships, building trust, and improving the team.

In Mr. 3000 Bernie finally gets a hit, T-Rex joshes him and begins to show leadership. The team begins to think like a team, act like a team, and play like a team. They rally for the play off run.

If the super star works without team members, team members gain nothing. If the super star works in spite of team efforts, then the organization gains nothing. If the super star works only for himself, then the team members, the organization, and quite possibly even the super star gains nothing.

Author Don Doman: Don is a published author of books for small business, corporate video producer, and owner of Ideas and Training (http://www.ideasandtraining.com), which provides business training products. Don also owns Human Resources Radio (http://www.humanresourcesradio.com), which provides business training programs and previews 24-hours a day.

Day Trading Success- The Key Is Survival

Filed under: Online Travel Resources — admin at 2:16 pm on Saturday, August 23, 2008

Most new traders tend to focus just about all their time and energy on finding nearly perfect “setups”, but trade setups, even very good ones, are *not* the key to successful trading. It’s the *way* you trade your setups that keeps your losses smaller than your gains. And this is the single most essential key to trading success. To me, the process of limiting losses is more than just money management…it is survival.

I can’t give you a list of mechanical survival rules that will take the place of experience and make you a successful trader overnight, but if you stick to the following principles in your trading, you’ll be on track. You’ll be doing just about the opposite of the crowd, and you’ll eventually learn to limit your losses. Limiting your losses is the only way I know to make money in this business.

The following guidelines will sound radical, but they have guided me in making my living from trading for many years.

1. If a trade doesn’t go your way within the first one to five minutes, get out. I usually get out within one or two minutes as soon as my perceived edge is gone.

2. If a trade goes against you in the first few seconds, begin drawing in your hard stop and/ or your target, trying to get out of the trade at break even.

3. Never let your hard stops get hit. When it happens, you may want to take a break and get some fresh air.

4. Hard stops are adjusted to market conditions. At the moment (July 6,2005) I am using 1.50 point hard stops on the SP futures.

5. Never move your hard stop away from your entry point, hoping that a bad trade will turn around.

6. If you find yourself *hoping* as you trade, it is a clear sign that you are not following good survival (money management) principles.

It will be impossible to put these principles together without a set of high-probability setups. Without good setups, trading is just a
flip of the coin.

Mike Reed is author of TradeStalker’s RBI Trader’s Updates. He has been trading the Market for 23 years. When he got his start as a trader, Mike was plotting prices on paper tape as the internet had not yet been “born” as we know it today. Years of experience have really given him a feel for the Market action. His support and resistance numbers have been published on the internet since 1996. He has a wide readership that includes day traders, floor traders, locals and hedge fund managers. Mike’s nightly support and resistance zones are specific and incredibly accurate. He offers an unlimited free trial of his nightly TradeStalker RBI Trader’s Updates. http://www.TradeStalker.com

A Marketing Strategy In Its Simplest Form

Filed under: Online Travel Resources — admin at 1:54 am on Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Marketing strategies come after the objectives and vision
and mission statement and before the action plan and tasks.
The marketing strategy is how you are going to carry out the
objective.

Tasks contain the detail. Tasks are what you want to list
and keep track of in your day timer system not your
marketing plan. Whether that is in Outlook, a Franklin-type
system, or in your electronic appointment system like a Palm
Pilot. It doesn’t matter if you prefer to start with a task
and work your way up into the objective or work from the
objective down. Both should accomplish the same result.

After creating the objectives, and making sure they are
S.M.A.R.T. (specific, measurable, action-oriented and
achievable, realistic, and timely), focus on one and
progress to the Action Plan and Tasks. Completing one at a
time in this manner will expose any gaps or duplicates.

Occasionally, there may be several strategies to one
objective or several objectives for one strategy. If this
occurs look for duplicates. Duplicates say the same thing
in different words. This review will keep the plan clear
and concise.

In my consultant role, I consistently see two mistakes made
during the strategy clarification process. Keep these in
mind as you define yours:

1. Timeframe not considered or matched so that it can
deliver the results desired.

2. Choosing what is comfortable but doesn’t reach a large
enough profitable target market.

Timeframe

Strategies need to be designated as short-term, medium-term,
or long-term. The length of time for each depends on the
business focus, market, and its maturity stage. For a new
business owner, maybe all you can handle is a 3-month plan
— short term. Whereas an established business may state
theirs in longer times: short-term 1 year, medium 3 years,
and long-term 5 years. A mature business may be 3, 5 and
10.

Operating in a 30-day vacuum for too long creates flash
fires that consistently need to be distinguished. When
this occurs the business is running you. At day 31 it’s a
scramble to create the next 30-day plan and the cycle
repeats. After so many of these cycles even the most
patient person will give up on planning.

Balance for a new business will have more short-term
objectives and strategies and less medium and long-term.
This normally occurs because testing and finding what works
is still a big part of their process and the marketing
system is still in flux.

Balance for an established business (5-10 years) would have
more objectives and strategies under medium-term. Whereas a
mature business (ten years up) would be striving for more
smoothness in their long-term strategies except for new
product or service development which begins its heaviest set
of strategies in the short-term.

Choice

Choosing the right strategy isn’t always about setting a
strategy comfortable for the solopreneur. The correct
strategy is one that is right for the prospects. The best
one delivers the results desired. Normally, one that
reaches the market in the fastest and easiest manner using
the least amount of resources.

I hear comments from solopreneurs like this: “I don’t like
to do that.” “I simple can’t possibly do that.” “I refuse
to do that.” “I don’t have the time.” This closed mind
just because its uncomfortable is their saboteur to success.
Afterwards they justify it with, “Money isn’t everything.”
They logically know that its natural to justify any decision
we make but they don’t see the connection. Some figure
this out years later, others never get it and go out of
business, and others finally get themselves to that
comfortable place.

The perfect strategy services both the comfort level and the
broadest market possible so it may deliver the desired
results.

Don’t waste time doing what you are comfortable with that
doesn’t reach a profitable enough market. This wastes
valuable and limited resources and creates failure.

Once you incorporate these important features into your
strategy development you will your plan easier to follow and
implement.

Catherine Franz - EzineArticles Expert Author

Catherine Franz is a master business coach, author and
speaker. For the next week, there is a 2 for 1 sale on her
books. http://www.Abundancecenter.com

Mountain Climbing Gear

Filed under: Online Travel Resources — admin at 1:00 am on Monday, August 18, 2008

Mountain climbing is a very popular sport. It is very exciting, adventurous and fun, provided you do it the right way. Mountaineering depends on your route, your partner and your level of expertise. Mountain climbing can also be very risky, as much depends on the weather, the mountain, and other conditions.

Being equipped with the right kind of gear is very important for mountain climbing. These days, there is very good equipment for climbing available. The gear is being made to be very durable, strong and light weight.

The main equipment used for mountain climbing includes: shoes/mountaineering boots, gloves, harnesses, ropes, racks, belay devices, locking carabiners, helmets, axes, headlamp, belay devices (sticht plate, ATC, Gri-Gri, Figure Eight), Descenders (figure eight, rescue eight, ATC), Ascenders, protection devices (nuts, hexcenters, spring loaded camming devices), sewn runners, climbing harnesses, climbing screws, pulleys, trekking pole, mountaineering shaft, pitons, haul bag, bouldering mat, holds, books/maps, special pants, and even underwear for rough weather. Other personal items may include: food and water, sunglasses, first aid kit, sun block, extra clothing, camera, tent, cookware, camp stove, sleeping bag/pad, a knife, approach shoes, chalk and chalk bag. Special training equipment for climbing includes: grip savers, fingerboards, campus boards and more.

Climbing gear has to be carefully carried, since it has to stay with you until you reach the top. You can clip some things to your harness, thus keeping the upper part of the body relatively lightweight. However, you may not be able to carry too many things like this, and there is also the chance of losing some of the things on the way. Most climbers use special backpacks that are designed to hold most of the essential things.

There are many providers of mountain climbing equipment. Some of the most popular brands are: Black Diamond, Volcom, Nixon, Oakley, Smith, Spy, The North Face, Nikita, Eagle Creek, Dakine, Mountain Hardwear and others. Climbing equipment has to be certified by the International Federation of Mountaineering Associations (UIAA) and the European Committee for Standardization (CEN). Mountain climbing equipment can also be purchased online.

Climbing Gear provides detailed information on Climbing Gear, Mountain Climbing Gear, Ice Climbing Gear, Rock Climbing Gear and more. Climbing Gear is affiliated with Discount Hiking Gear.

Effective Meetings: Why Most Meetings are a Waste of Time

Filed under: Online Travel Resources — admin at 9:50 pm on Thursday, August 14, 2008

Whether your company holds one meeting a week or dozens of meetings a day it is essential that this time is used efficiently and effectively. Most meetings are less effective than they could be not because they are poorly managed, but because meeting managers spend all of their time focusing on the one or two hours when people will be gathered around the conference table or video screen. Smart meeting managers know that it is the actions you take during the three days immediately before the meeting which are much more important than the meeting itself.

When Your Meeting Starts
The key to making your meeting successful begins long before the scheduled start-time of your meeting. Just as any athlete knows the importance of stretching before exercising, top-level meeting managers know that how you spend your time the week prior to a meeting is as important as or more important than the meeting time itself.

Common signs that a manager has spent too much time focusing on the meeting itself and not enough time focusing on the activity leading up to the meeting include people coming to your meetings unprepared, a few people suggesting many of the ideas, and a consistent pattern of rushing through the items at the bottom of your agenda.

Roger Burns, a 30-year veteran of high-level meetings describes it like this, “Often times the first 20 or 30 minutes of our meetings would be spent with people flipping through the documents I had sent them over a week ago. They had not prepared and had no idea what questions I was going to ask in the next few minutes.”

If you are like many, these symptoms show up more often than not. So what is a meeting manager to do? How can you avoid these common pitfalls? The answer is simple, but it begins a full week before the meeting is scheduled to start.

The Three P’s of Successful Meetings: Preparation, Participation, Prioritization
Although a successful meeting requires a skilled facilitator, that is only part of the puzzle. Equally important is the activity that has occurred prior to the meeting.

The First P: Preparation
Effective use of your meeting time relies on all parties being prepared to participate. This means that each person in attendance has already read the meeting materials prior to the meeting taking place. In addition to this, the meeting participants should be given the questions that are going to be discussed prior to the meeting.

Historically, most meetings begin with the chairperson asking a question to those in attendance. As an example if you were holding a strategic planning meeting, a good question might be, “What do you think are the strengths of our organization?” At this point the discussion moves around the table with each person having two minutes to process the questions, come up with a smart-sounding solution, and express the solution coherently to the group.

The problem with this method is that most good ideas do not come in those two minutes. Good ideas come as you are driving to work, as you are falling asleep, as you are in the shower - the very times you are probably not with your co-workers in a meeting. (Unless you are routinely holding your meetings in the company locker room!) Giving the questions you are going to ask to each meeting participant prior to the meeting is essential to getting the best ideas out of your participants. It also gives them a reason to read the materials you have distributed prior to the meeting.

The best time to distribute the materials and questions is three to seven days prior to your meeting. This gives participants a chance to think about the issues and questions, but not long enough to forget their good ideas and why they liked them. The payback here is fast and obvious. You will get more accomplished in less time - saving your organization money and allowing you to get your ideas implemented faster.

The Second P: Participation
Getting the best ideas from your best people is essential for your meeting to be successful. The other half of this equation is to get a broad base of participation so there is ownership in the solution rather than resentment.

If these two elements are so important to successful meetings, why is it so rare that they happen simultaneously? The first reason it rarely happens is because your best idea people are often your busiest people. More times than not these high-value people who are like popcorn machines full of ideas are already scheduled for other meetings when you choose your meeting times. Although it is sometimes possible to reschedule your meeting to meet their availability, it is impossible to adjust every time and for every need.

The second reason you rarely get your best idea people to participate and have a wide base of ownership at the same time has to do with the dynamic within meetings. Each person within your organization is wired differently and for every person who is comfortable expressing and advocating for ideas in a meeting there are others who do not have this gift. For those who are good at verbal maneuvering, gaining support at a meeting is like a sport. For those who feel less comfortable in this environment advocating a position can feel like torture. Clearly a venue is needed to allow everyone a chance to participate in the solution in a way that is non-threatening, democratic and builds ownership directly into the process.

Do not underestimate the value of this increased participation. Ideas, initiatives and even directives that are viewed as having a broad base of support are implemented faster and with a higher level of quality. In addition to this, you do get better ideas when more people participate - especially when the people participating are those closest to the action not those incubated in their executive offices. All of this helps you innovated faster than the competition, get to market quicker with your ideas, and win the battle of consistent quality.

The Third P: Prioritization
In a perfect world we would have unlimited time in each day to get everything done. Unfortunately we live on the clock each and every day. Too often our meetings are crammed full of agenda items placed there in the order they showed up on our desk or the order we jotted them down on a yellow sticky note while on the phone, with no level of importance or urgency.

The best meeting managers understand that all items on an agenda do not deserve equal weight, and they prioritize the issues starting with the most urgent. This allows your best minutes to be dedicated to your most important items.

Unfortunately the priorities of the leader are not always the priorities of the team. There are many times when the rank and file have a burning issue that has completely slipped past the management. Effective meeting leaders have a system in place to identify and address just such issues.

The benefit of having such a system in place is increased productivity in your most vital areas. By focusing everyone’s attention on the issues which are most important to your success you will quickly see a decrease in non-value added activity and increased profitability for your efforts.

A New Set of Tools
Now that we have switched our focus from the one hour meeting around to the full week leading up to a meeting - a whole new set of tools needs to be added to your toolbox.

There are a multitude of tools already present and accounted for to help you with the actual meeting: from flip charts to electronic white boards, from video-conferencing to the latest collaboration software allowing a group of people edit a document from locations around the world, companies have kept up-to-date with a variety of e-meeting solutions.

One tool new to this market sector is ehuddle. Ehuddle is an internet-based tool used by companies pre-meeting and post-meeting to increase the effectiveness of meetings. Initiated by a simple email to meeting participants, ehuddle let’s everyone who is invited to the meeting see the questions that are going to be asked, brainstorm possible answers, and evaluate a list of possible solutions. All of this activity happens in the days leading up to the meeting ensuring that participants are prepared for the meeting - having already thought about the important issues and evaluated each other’s possible solutions.

Ehuddle utilizes a proprietary online format that is anonymous and democratic. This not only allows members of your committee who could not make the meeting to give input, it also creates an environment where no one is afraid to suggest ideas. Ownership is built into the process because everyone has had a hand in evaluating each solution.

Smart meeting managers are even using tools like ehuddle to set a portion of the agenda. By letting rank and file members of any group to brainstorm and rank issues that are important to them, the agenda automatically reflects the needs of the organization.

The return on investment for tools like ehuddle is quickly realized. Managers recognize the money lost in non-optimized meetings, low levels of participation, and distracted activity. Couple this with the increased productivity, quicker issue identification and resolution, and faster time-to-market the tool brings and you will quickly see that this is money well spent.

Utilizing this full set of tools prior to a meeting allows the leader to walk into the conference room or video-conference confident that the groundwork has been laid for a successful meeting.

About the author…
Pat Quinn is an author, presenter, consultant helping companies maximize the effectiveness of their meetings. Each year Mr. Quinn speaks to thousands of leaders around the country.

ehuddle.com

Self Confident Leadership

Filed under: Online Travel Resources — admin at 7:27 pm on Wednesday, August 13, 2008

In surprisingly short supply, consider some ways to increase personal confidence.

What makes self-confidence in a leader important? Without it, a leader cannot embrace change or take on difficult assignments. With it, a leader has a presence that helps her to “stand out”, strengthen and support others in order to multiply leadership. Strong leaders with high self-confidence do not hesitate to move forward and make important decisions immediately without fear of the outcome. People are watching, and a leader who shows lack of self-confidence is considered weak.

So how to cope with a lack of self-confidence?

Some leaders may attempt to fake their way through it.

Effective leaders have learned the importance of the following:

• Focus on personal and organizational strengths: traditional leadership development programs have focused on gaps. With the advent of positive psychology and some of the work of the Gallup organization, this is changing. Consider your strengths and the gaps will take care of themselves.

• Be willing to be relentless in decision-making, face the consequences and move on: Not making decisions or second-guessing is a sure-fire way to continue to wallow in low self-esteem. Taking action provides the confidence needed to make subsequent decisions.

• Learn from mistakes: since mistakes are inevitable, change your thinking from “what went wrong?” to “how can I learn from what went wrong?”

• Celebrate the outcomes: how often do we do this? An often neglected activity, learn to celebrate in the way that works best for you and your team. Even less than perfect outcomes should be celebrated with emphasis on what went right.

• Make sure you surround yourself and rely on smart people: enough said.

• Find someone you can confide in, reflect with, and do it regularly (schedule it).

Where do you find someone to confide in? Finding a confidante may be the hardest to act on. Vulnerability must be admitted to ask for help. Aren’t leaders supposed to have all the answers? Why would they need someone to confide in? Leaders don’t have all the answers (just like anyone … ) and making the time to confide and reflect assists in clarifying situations and finding the answers - leading to increased self confidence.
You may find a colleague that is an exceptional non-judgmental listener - perhaps you have a friend or relative who will fit the bill. Hiring a coach trained in the skill set of coaching may be the best answer.

Mary Jo Asmus - EzineArticles Expert Author

As President of Aspire Collaborative Services, Mary Jo Asmus is a Leadership Expert, Executive Coach and Business Consultant who partners with Senior Leaders, “High Potentials”, and their teams, to support them in achieving their goals in business excellence. Mary Jo’s global Fortune 500 background in business areas as diverse as human resources; research and development; organizational development; and business strategy allow her to provide valuable insights about individuals and organizational systems.

Mary Jo is known for her professionalism, honesty and integrity. Her style is supportive and focused on the results needed to reach and surpass individual and organizational goals. Her passion for collaborative partnership and discovering strengths facilitate action suited specifically for the individual and team. More information is available at http://www.aspire-cs.com.

Is a Cruise Vacation Right for You?

Filed under: Online Travel Resources — admin at 4:06 am on Monday, August 11, 2008

Have you spent years envying those who take cruises to Alaska or the Bahamas while you’re stuck at home or driving to Florida? Well, now is the time to take action. Cruises aren’t just for the rich anymore; they’re for everyone!

Cruise lines have dropped their prices low enough that just about anyone who wants to go can save enough to take a cruise.

Although you might look at the prices for cruises online or at your local travel agency, and think I’m crazy. It really is possible. The great thing about a cruise is that one price pays for everything.

All your meals are included, and food is available constantly throughout the day! In my opinion, anywhere that feeds you well is always worth the price. However, if you happen to disagree, just start adding up how much you spend on food during a normal family vacation. Likely, you spend more than what the cruise is charging you.

If you are still not quite convinced that a cruise is for you, consider the fact that you won’t have to spend any time waiting in traffic when you’re on a boat. Nor will you have to spend hours driving to get to a great destination.

Instead of spending a lot of time cooped up in the car, the entire length of your cruise will be spent having fun together. No “Mommy, are we there yet?” just good old fashioned fun in the sun!

The real test of whether a cruise is for you is to decide what it will really cost in both time and money. Sometimes it is better to pay more up front in order to have more quality time to spend with your family. I discovered this to be true when I went on my first cruise. I wasn’t really excited about it at first because of the price; however, after a week on a cruise, I was a convert!

My experience went something like this: “I don’t want to pay all that money….. Well, I guess we could…. Now, THIS is what I’m talking about!”

For a whole seven days, I didn’t have to cook or clean or even make up the beds. There were maids and professional chefs there to do it for me.

Not once did I have to pull the kids away from the television, because there were so many fun shows and outdoor events that I had to beg them to come inside occasionally.

For one whole week, I was a queen. If only all of life was like a cruise…

Nicole Minard, traveler and internet publisher, is a
contributing author for A
Travel To, offering free information and resources for
travelers. Articles by Nicole can also be found
at FNX Cruise.

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